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putting a book on your desk is NOT pushy, however,

Posted By: sm on 2008-04-18
In Reply to: Yeah, afraid of pushy christians. - wow

telling someone they cannot do so, IS pushing your opinions, now isn't it???? You ACLU anti's are the pushiest kind of people out there.

Deny Him now, but remember, eternity is a LOOOOOONG time.


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Oh believe me, I know what a pushy Christian is you see,
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Yeah, afraid of pushy christians.


 


Help! Pushy parents think I work from home and can drive their kids etc

I am constantly being asked to watch people's kids because I work from home.  The latest is a friend of my son attending the same camp in another town.  The friend I will call Scotty.  Scotty has two parents.  His father works from home as a computer consultant.  My friends and I have called Scotty's dad to work on our computers and he never even returns the call or shows up.  Scotty's mom recently asked me if I could drive her son home from them because the dad gets busy and doesn't like to leave clients.  I told her that I too am working from home and have to minimize my time in the car.  Scotty does not live close to us.  I feel like a big meanie but they have pushed me before.  Last year our kids were not even in the same camp but the mom called and asked if I would drive and pick up her son every day because i live in the same town as the camp.  I was like ??? no way.


They used to drop Scotty off at my house on school holidays.  They would drop him off at 7 AM and then once the mom called me at 5 PM and said she wanted to get an oil change and asked me if I could keep scotty until 7:30 PM.  I said NO and then she came to pick him up earlier but stayed at my house uninvited until 9:30 when I just said I HAVE TO GO TAKE A SHOWER.


Anyone have clever ways to handle these situations?


I read this book also. Wonderful book.

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Get up from your desk....sm

for a minute, stretch, breathe deeply, and get a Red Bull (energy drink) from the fridge.  Works like a charm for me. I'm exactly in your shoes and I've tried lots of things, but Red Bull and movement work the best for me.  Good luck!


desk top.
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Not on his desk
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I just got off a quick break and decided to watch this video that I was told would floor me.  It certainly did.  I knew our political system was corrupt, but I honesly had no idea "they" were this blatant about it. 


This is well worth the several minutes or so it takes to watch.  I didn't post this under either political board, because it transcends both the conservative and liberal spectrums.  Maybe this should go under the prayer request board now that I think of it.


If it's happening there, it's happening everywhere.  These "voices of the people" totally need a good smackin.



Just click on the link hopefully shown below.  If it doesn't work, cut and paste this into your browser: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eG6X-xtVask


 


Coffee - laptop or desk top?
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A Mount Vernon science teacher said yesterday that he will refuse to remove a Bible from his classroom desk, despite his school district's order.

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The religious activist Dave Daubenmire, Freshwater's friend, acted as his spokesman yesterday. "This is not a religion issue; this is a free-speech issue," Daubenmire said. "He didn't take the Bible to read to anybody."

Mount Vernon Superintendent Steve Short said Freshwater's characterization of the events leading to the district order that he remove religious items from his classroom was "not entirely accurate," but Short wouldn't elaborate.

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Freshwater wouldn't answer questions directly because of the likelihood he will file a lawsuit charging "viewpoint discrimination," Daubenmire said.

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nm
I see from your answer why the friend is putting you off.
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xxx
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This person is putting it harshly but ...
the message is correct. and I just came in the middle of your conversation so sorry if I got it wrong. However, this is a sore subject for me. I wish I could counsel people before they get to this point.
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xx
Well, 10 years+ MTing, so kind of new...I see what you are saying about putting in a few sm
hours, etc. Can I be honest? I like working on holidays. I really do. BUT, that was not my point. My point was that I don't like other MTs telling me that I SHOULD work that day. And that is my obligation. Because to that I say, no it isn't!
Putting in middle initial so can differentiate
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nm
*humid* in Florida is putting it VERY mildly....LOL

I saw that, too! They are clever. Also remember putting the pole
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AWW thanks for putting that up I love cats but son's allergic
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Anyway thanks for showing us those beautiful babies!
I am putting my post inside so no one has to read
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