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Bawling....

Posted By: typnqueen on 2006-01-31
In Reply to: Bawling my eyes out. - Starting over.

He backed out on the deal you had, now he is being abusive.

I'm not yelling, but you need to get out NOW. By staying after he has hit you or verbally used you, you are telling him that it is okay to do those things. You are also telling your children that it is okay for Daddy to be mean to Mommy. How safe do you think they feel? If Mommy doesn't stand up for herself, why would she stand up for me?

If you are doing MT work at home, move back to your family if you will find support there (my family would be the last place I would look for or find support). You can do work-at-home MT from anywhere.

You know what you need to do. Take care of yourself and your kids - get out.


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Bawling my eyes out.
My husband is the BIGGEST JERK on the planet.  I have been out of transcription for a few years having children and he has been working nights. We had agreed that I would go back to work after my 3-year-old gets into school (two more years).  Recently, however, he decided he is tired of working and quit his job.  I took a job and just started last week.  He is already complaining that I'm not making enough money.  I'm just so frustrated.  My family and friends are ready for me to leave me, but I have three kids under 7 and I'm scared to death.  I know I could support us, but I fear what the future holds, so it keeps me here.  He is verbally and physically abusive to all of us and I know better than this.  Please don't yell at me.  I'm looking for some support.  My family lives very far away. I'm sorry to dump this here, but you are all transcriptionists too and I thought maybe someone had a similar situation and could suggest something for me.  Thanks.