Get out

Posted By: memt2 on 2008-05-27
In Reply to: Marriage Help - Done

I have a sister who has been in her marriage for 25+ years, miserable the whole time, stayed for children, now the 2 kids are in the same kind of relationship because that is all they know, learned behavior as Dr. Phil states, in the long run it hurt them for her to stay more than it helped.

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Marriage Help - Done
- What I would do - sm - anon2
- Hey Done - - anon
- P.S. - Chavera
- Pretty wild posts - Wow
  - To Wow... - EvaEv
    - That's not the worst - Wow
      - Three main reasons why marriages break up... - EvaEv
- I have been single again as long as I was married and there is not a day I don't regret leaving s - Half and Half
  - Half and Half............ - EvaEv
    - Here is why you DO NOT take an abuse spouse like this to counseling sm - Half and Half
    - Once again you are rude - Everyday MT
      - EverydayMT...... - EvaEv
        You are sooo right! - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
- Get out - memt2
  - To memt2..... - EvaEv
- I am the child of such a marriage - see msg
- Do what your heart tells you - Christina Vantilborgh
- To Done: STAY ! - EvaEv
  - You've got to be joking - you are so insensitive - Everyday MT
    - To EverydayMT...see inside.. - EvaEv
      - What about the scars the children - see msg
        To msg.. - EvaEv
        My husband has done nothing to me - see msg
        To see msg.... - EvaEv
        Define "really abusive" - IA MT
        IA MT..see inside.. - EvaEv
  - Gee thanks for the positive feedback - Done
    - To Done........ - EvaEv
    - Bad marriage - Chavera
      - Thank You - Done
        To Done... - EvaEv
        Too bad this wasn't your first comment - see msg
        To see msg.... - EvaEv
        Exactly - you didn't know - Everyday MT
        Whether he was apologetic - see msg
        Done - Done
        Fo Done: Is it right to leave a husband... - EvaEv
        Obviously you have never been abused... - Dawn
        If you've been to a counselor who suggests - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
        uhh...that should be "suggested leaving"...not counseling...nm - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
        OMG - you just didn't do that did you? - Everyday MT
        EXCUSE ME??? - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
        Pardon me everyone - too many posts too confusing - Everyday MT
        I think if you look closely she is correcting her own post, not criticizing the OP. nm - KT
        This is for Done:... - EvaEv

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