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Posted By: EvaEv on 2008-05-27
In Reply to: My husband has done nothing to me - see msg
Ok, ok, calm down.
I do not try to make others feel miserable, the contrary,
I try to save marriages, because I believe in marriage and when it's broken, it's broken, no going back.
Done's husband is not really abusive. What they have is a communication problem. They have to stop writing letters and t a l k to each other.
They should actually go on a date: They should set certain days aside and agree to meet at a certain hour, let's say in the evening - children not present - and talk to each other, for an hour or so. Or go out, have some fun!
Each of them can tell the other one what her/his problems are. If the conversations become too heated, one should just get up and leave the room to calm down. No shouting and yelling is allowed and no insults.
I hope it can be fixed. Why do you a l l advise her to leave her family and start a new life? In my opinion this marriage can be saved.
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