Hey Done -

Posted By: anon on 2008-05-28
In Reply to: Marriage Help - Done

Do you want to be with someone you can live with - or someone you cannot live without? I believe the only reason for this marriage to be saved is if BOTH people want it to work and want to have a long, happy life together. . It sounds like you don't think you can be happy with him but maybe you could tolerate staying with him for the sake of the kids. . that doesn't sound fair to anyone. The kids will know if you are unhappy. . Good luck in whatever you decide to do.

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Marriage Help - Done
- What I would do - sm - anon2
- Hey Done - - anon
- P.S. - Chavera
- Pretty wild posts - Wow
  - To Wow... - EvaEv
    - That's not the worst - Wow
      - Three main reasons why marriages break up... - EvaEv
- I have been single again as long as I was married and there is not a day I don't regret leaving s - Half and Half
  - Half and Half............ - EvaEv
    - Here is why you DO NOT take an abuse spouse like this to counseling sm - Half and Half
    - Once again you are rude - Everyday MT
      - EverydayMT...... - EvaEv
        You are sooo right! - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
- Get out - memt2
  - To memt2..... - EvaEv
- I am the child of such a marriage - see msg
- Do what your heart tells you - Christina Vantilborgh
- To Done: STAY ! - EvaEv
  - You've got to be joking - you are so insensitive - Everyday MT
    - To EverydayMT...see inside.. - EvaEv
      - What about the scars the children - see msg
        To msg.. - EvaEv
        My husband has done nothing to me - see msg
        To see msg.... - EvaEv
        Define "really abusive" - IA MT
        IA MT..see inside.. - EvaEv
  - Gee thanks for the positive feedback - Done
    - To Done........ - EvaEv
    - Bad marriage - Chavera
      - Thank You - Done
        To Done... - EvaEv
        Too bad this wasn't your first comment - see msg
        To see msg.... - EvaEv
        Exactly - you didn't know - Everyday MT
        Whether he was apologetic - see msg
        Done - Done
        Fo Done: Is it right to leave a husband... - EvaEv
        Obviously you have never been abused... - Dawn
        If you've been to a counselor who suggests - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
        uhh...that should be "suggested leaving"...not counseling...nm - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
        OMG - you just didn't do that did you? - Everyday MT
        EXCUSE ME??? - leaving...then find a new counselor...sm
        Pardon me everyone - too many posts too confusing - Everyday MT
        I think if you look closely she is correcting her own post, not criticizing the OP. nm - KT
        This is for Done:... - EvaEv

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