The proximity
Posted By: One other thing on 2009-02-26
In Reply to: It was the dental hygienist in my case, SM - Don't underestimate yourself
Now, having your teeth cleans and having your hair styled requires proximity which could add something to this situation that nothing else can other than a masseuse. You must think of that. Be paranoid. Be wrong. Tell your husband you don't care what he thinks, this is important to you and expect him to respect your feelings. And if he pauses, consider that a sign of emotional attachment to the lady.
I'd rather fight for 3 weeks nonstop that lose my marriage to an affair because I wore blinders.
It's a tough life. Married men are open game to many single women. They offer newness for a while.
Pull away from the situation and if your hubby doesn't pull away with you, then pull away from him, even if it is in the next bedroom. Don't let him make you think you are crazy.
Men get aroused having prostate exams. Get the picture? And tell your husband you'd appreciate it if he would not create complicated situations which distract from your life together.
Don't forget who you are. And why he married you.
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