Well, IMO

Posted By: o boy on 2009-02-25
In Reply to: Need opinions on situation with husband - wimt

I feel the right thing would have been for him to come to you first, out of respect for you, his wife, and discussed his idea of giving her $500 from both of you. It's the behind the back thing I don't like. Of course, I don't know if you two have separate finances or whatever but still, that is a large sum of money.

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Need opinions on situation with husband - wimt
- It sounds to me like you have a very - Kendra
- It was the dental hygienist in my case, SM - Don't underestimate yourself
  - The proximity - One other thing
    - clarification of a definition of a word - women
      - My husband's ex-wife supposedly -sm - Z
      - Who wants to have sex with a man who - Yep
- Would never give this amount sm - anonamiss
- Feminine intuition is rarely wrong. And when you are close to the truth, your man - LilMT
- I don't think he is having an affair with her - sm - XXX
- I would get them - sm
- Some men don't see the little steps that lead to affairs... - ndmt
- Please let us know - Carmen
- I doubt that anything has happened (yet) - Old part-timer
  - I thought of that initially too, but then I realized just - LilMT
- Sounds to me like - Lila
- God help the rest of you if you're ever in need!! sm - Not jumping to conclusions
  - You cannot believe, I cannot believe you either - La-La land
  - don't listen to this garbage - yuck
    - Finally.............thank you!! Gut instinct!! - he's on the defensive and shouldn't be!
  - He should consider his wife FIRST, not his stylist..... - nm
- Please go with your gut instinct here... - sm
- Well, IMO - o boy
- $500 tip - anonMT
- My question is, - Hmmm
  - My take. - marriedx23yrs
    - that's what you think.... - I know why women are lesbians.
      - my husband and other - women
    - I must disagree with that. My husband - SM
      - That's kind of how I feel - wimt
        how to kill a husband crush - women
        So in other words, reward him for pulling this crap? - sm
        mammas and wives - women
        Whatever, reward your husband - SM
        Sounds like you prefer to accuse first, ask later. - power play
        Uh, yeah - sm
        hashing it out - women
        So if my husband talks about - LOL
        So sickening - Fedup
        the hairstylist - women
        I feel for you. He sounds a lot - SM
    - All guys do not want to give that much money away - Hmmm
      - Maybe I should clarify that I - marriedx23yrs

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