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My dad is an immature, selfish idiot.

Posted By: sm on 2006-02-15
In Reply to: I'm wondering about your Daddy's. - Jodi

Entertained himself by making fun of me and laughing at me when I got upset, doesn't know how to carry on even the simplest conversation, has been telling the same tired jokes for 40 years for lack of anything to say and goes to bed at 2PM because there are people in the house and he can't keep up with a discussion like a normal human being. I grew up with no self esteem and married the first abusive, selfish, hateful idiot that I came across because I thought that was all the better I could do.

Thank goodness I saw what was going on with me and why and have been straightening out my life for the past 12 years or so and avoid my dad (and the rest of my dysfunctional family) at all cost.

My dad = a waste of oxygen.


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If I'm an idiot you're an uneducated turbo-idiot

At least I have the brains to see when it's time to change directions instead of crying about those bad, bad MTSO's and their foreign employees. Boo, hoo, hoo!



Not Selfish

I am not being selfish, i have two other children in the public school system and that is where they want to be, but for my son Home schoolig has been the best thing for him.


Each child is different and as parents we always have to do what is best for our children for they our the future.


 


Selfish??? Only if...

it's selfish to expect to be compensated fairly  for your hard-won expertise and hard work.  SHEESH!!   However, it may well be called foolish, with the bosses' excuse of "hard times"  for not wanting to do the right thing.


 


 


Again, we agree. Very selfish to think they should have every holiday off, as if they are sm

the only ones with a family or a life.  And yes, when there is a chance to line their pockets, they will be the first to suck the work dry. 


I guess it doesn't matter.   At least I know I'm doing the right thing.  I take breaks and have my family time and everyone understands that is just the nature of the business.   I guess once people quit getting sick at times it is inconvenient for us, we can all take off.


That is not selfish, it is something called LOVE.
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Strike at this time is selfish
I think that during this hard time for the country, anyone who is going to strike, ie. kick and scream till they get what they want, are being selfish. There are SOOOO many unemployed right now and sooo many more running the risk as well. I understand not wanting to take cuts, etc. but face it people, that is what a lot of people in this country are resorting to because they have no other choice. Many, I am sure, would be HAPPY to have a job...and these people want to quit working till they get their way? And these people are the people who preach about patient care? - just my opinion
Listen - most men have more selfish ways than women. sm
I can remember when my teens were small, my husband would moan and groan whenever I took time away from the home and "went out." To be honest, we were young and immature then - mature enough to get married and have children, but NOT mature enough in our married relationship.

Sometimes selfishness disguises itself as insecurity. Maybe, he is a little insecure and not as selfish as you think. It took me a long time to recognize it and I did not recognize it until I "matured" enough to see it.

Just wanted to give you something to think about!

BTW - Marriage is hard work. It is not easy, especially in the first 7-10 years, and it is even harder with small chiildren. You need to communicate, communicate, and communiate some more as well as show each other love and respect, it will become a smoother ride!

Been married for 19 years now and would not want to live a day without my Mr. McDreamy!
Good luck.
Immature is right on!
Whoever said about some of these people being immature are right on! You can tell facts, without being nasty and rude! For anyone here to bury their heads in the sand and act like this does not go on here, they are either lying or they don't read enough on these boards!
Less than 1 yr, spoiled selfish baby vs confirmed bachelor
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Sounds very immature to me.
Weren't you the one complaining about immaturity up the board? "UR Ignorant" -- sounds a little bit immature, don't you think?!

Please, practice what you preach.

I don't agree with MQ Lover, Chucky, Frankie Boy (who has been banned), and Zipper at all. However, they certainly have given you a break from your usual complaints so be happy!
This might sound immature..but how about

You could try that?  Just tell her you are sick of males in general...  lol.


 


I really would have a hard time accepting the fact that my husband was a pig and hitting on other women, too (but, then again, I would also be wise about it--sounds like she wouldn't want to hear it and probably think you had the other motives).... this is a crappy problem to have. 


immature people always do
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Is that immature or what?! - No message.
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Ugh - how extremely nauseating and immature -
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Kikis just young/immature and does not...SM

Patti - give it up...not worth your time or your expertise, nor any of us well-seasoned (decades) professionals, and be sure to take some time for yourself. 


Tad immature? - does not speak English.
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Or completely immature and out of touch with reality
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Very, very immature "catty" women on this board.
People here are very rude, at times.  You can deny it, but it is true! As other posters have said, they have witnessed it many times.  You can reply with whatever about "stay away, etc" but just as the mod said, any opinions or tones here are welcome! So, I just don't understand all of the high-school mentality that gets played out here, at all.
IDIOT!!!!
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What an idiot.
Then what are you doing coming to the MT board if you are not an MT. I never said that I am most MTs! Read what the OP posted and then read mine. Are you stupid? I won't need any luck in finding a job. Worry about yourself and get a life.
Your not an idiot...sm
You are just giving your opinion. Nobody said she had to take anybodys advice. She can read and make up her own mind. I am glad you were able to remove yourself from that situation and I hope she also finds a way. Have a good day.
don't think I'm an idiot, but...
can you tell me what it's called?  I just looked at target online, and the only things I saw were CDs and a toy :)  Thanks a lot for the suggestion and at 10 bucks, I'm definitely looking into it!!
So I'm an idiot...

But I thank you for posting information that we all can learn from.  I know very little ctrl commands and this has just helped a great deal.  Thanks!


Pays to read these posts!


Well, if you were working for my co., then you'd be the idiot because
usually the 30 seconds or less are doctors saying, "okay transcriptionist, please use my normal template for a left total knee replacement...left knee...no complications...thanks!

And then I get 80 lines - can you say CHHEEEEEESE??


Wow, what a freaking idiot.
What is there to back up lady? I am coming to this board to see if anyone get the letter and check. I can't back anything up if I have no documentation. All I know is that there is a statement in IPAY and not a deposit into my bank account. I called payroll and that is what they told me. Came here to post it to see what people are saying. You make no sense and I wonder how you even make it out of bed in the morning.
No reasoning with an idiot, so I won't try.
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Drunk idiot at that!!! LOL

You see, there is no reasoning with an idiot. nm
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You are an idiot if you think the people
with the 9 bedroom homes on the beach are the ones needing help. In fact, most homes are not even 9 bedrooms in Florida. Even the real expensive houses are no more than 3-4 bedrooms. Get your facts straight. I am speaking from NOT being on the beach, in Houston. When hurricane Rita came through, we were flat broke after buying water, etc. When we lost power, we lost all of our food other than what we ate during the first few days. Some of us had to work and could not get out 3-4 days in advance. After that, you couldn't get out, and I live in Houston not on the beach!! I would have had to take 2 cars to get everyone out, which we were willing to do. Did you see the freeways. It was taking 24-48 hours for people to make a 4 hour trip! There were animals, kids and adults who died on the freeway trying to get out. If we would have attempted to leave, we would have still been on the freeway when the storm hit. We felt safer in our home. Thank God it shifted East though. You speak out of ignorance, as do most people who are so hateful. It IS the goverment's job to help every American in need. That is our God give right when we pay money into the goverment. The goverment is there to protect their people, and that is part of it. You cannot pick and choose who is worthy! You have no idea what their situation is. As I said before, you speak from ignorance.
Some idiot will do it though either for experience or
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It's from the internet you idiot

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Before he turned into a complete idiot.
I haven't seen any of his recent movies since he split with Nicole Kidman.  Of course, I saw "Days of Thunder" and "Far and Away".  Read the whole post, then try taking an English comprehension course.  Troll.
No on is an idiot and you should be ashamed of yourself for calling anyone that. nm
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I refuse to validate the idiot Cruise
or to enrich him with one penny of my hard-earned money. I will not be seeing his movie or any other project in which he is involved. I feel the same way about Johnny Depp since the horrible, hateful statements he has made about America and Americans. They are free to speak their minds, but I am also free to choose not to reward their hatefulness.
If you're calling me an idiot, you must be one of the ones I'm talking about.
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The accounts are not out of TAT just maybe the 1 hour TAT some idiot in Amherst came up with to
probably get a big bonus. Hope they feel good about themselves. Again what should we do.
It's called being an inconsiderate self-absorbed idiot
they don't realize how irritating it is for someone to have to listen to that crap. They just don't care.
You idiot, there are plenty of jobs with companies that DON'T offshore. Go somewhere else and

quit your raggin on this board. 


WOOOW. You are the biggest idiot i have ever heard...GET A LIFE!
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Are you watching Fox News. Idiot surfers out in the ocean.
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You're an idiot. You asked for help on a public forum
then get angry over the responses? OMG, do you even have a life? LOL

I don't care if you are a mensa or a full blown idiot...
like MensaMT who tells us she is awesome at everything she does and everything she touches is gold, then you deserve to be flamed! All those things may be true, but come on...nobody wants to hear you tell about how wonderful you are. There are plenty of MTs out there doing all she is doing - with a much less IQ - who don't have to tell a soul!
You sound like a complete and total idiot! I don't use that word lightly!
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The former head of FEMA was a horse trainer-He is an idiot no matter what-nm
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It's not because you're beautiful, it's because you're an IDIOT!
Does that make it any clearer for you??