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We adopted our two daughters through...

Posted By: UTMT on 2006-08-28
In Reply to: Adoption - Amy

the foster care program in California.  If you would like to know all about it, both positive and negative, please e-mail me.  I really don't want to share the whole story on a public forum.


utahwest@hotmail.com


 




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...not to stir the pot, but if you are married it should be a compromise. If in the end your furthering your education benefits you both, can't see how he could object. Try sitting down and showing the pros to this side of the coin. If he does not budge, well, go any way. Ask friends to help with the babysitting.

P.S. - he's WRONG ABOUT OUTSOURCING. The sky's the limit here - nothing will stop outsourcing as long as there are HUGE profits to be made.
We adopted 3 kittens from the shelter and they

sneezed like crazy, turned out it was a common infection in shelters, but our vet said to give 500 mg of lysine - we crushed it and mixed it with a tiny bit of canned food to make sure they got it.  It really worked.  We stopped it a couple of days and the sneezing came back, restarted it and it stopped.  They eventually developed the immunities to fight it. 


 


We adopted 3 feral cats and one of them won't use the litter box
all the time. She uses it sometimes, just not all the time.  We have 2 litter boxes and she always goes in the room where the boxes are, sometimes actually touching the box and once she went on the actual box of litter.    They have all been spayed, put on antibiotics in case of infection, we have tried 3 different litter boxes, various litters, keeping them cleaned,etc. and nothing seems to work.  It seems to be only 1 of the 3 cats and she may go a few days and do okay but then we find or smell a surprise.  Our vet has no clue and I've read and tried various things I've found on-line. 
No, but thought about it also as we too just adopted 2 dogs recently.
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We adopted a beagle/hound mix from a shelter
He had kennel cough an eye infection & ear infections in both ears. I was appalled b/c this shelter rescued him from a kill-shelter in VA. The shelter we got him from call themselves "Puppy Angels" and they go on & on about how much they love the animals & all they do for them. They told me he was healthy & had been examined by the shelter owner's sister who was a vet & also the other VA shelter's vet. I don't believe that for a second- how could have been seen by 2 vets & never treated? Anyway, he is fine now. We clean his ears periodically to prevent infections, the kennel cough is all cleared up & his eye is fine now, he is now completely healthy. We are so happy we rescued him, he's made such a wonderful addition to our family. He's incredibly loud & very hyper but he's also the sweetest dog I've ever met. He's our baby!
p.s. I do have 2 feral cats I adopted and they love it indoors. sm
They are the sweetest little girls, littermates. 
AAMT 2nd ed. finally adopted the rules the AMA and CBE style guides

use numerals (except at beginning of sentence).  It conveys numerical information quickly when one sees the numbers rather than the word.


I don't know of a standard national font and size.


Those of you with daughters, at what age did you - sm
allow them to have their ears pierced?  My daughter's are 7 (8 in August) and 6 and are both bugging me to get their ears pierced.  I was 10 when I had mine done, but then again I had no interest in doing it before then.  Of course you see the mom's that have their kids ears done as babies/toddlers, but I think that is way too young, but that is my opinion.  So what is a reasonable age? 
My daughters have certain guidelines in the way they want (sm)

the children to act, be treated, etc.  We have an understanding that I won't let them play in the street, swim unattended, smart mouth an adult, cus, or do anything that is generally dangerous for them.  They love to help cook, garden and just sit on my lap and be read to.  Yes, I may take them shopping a little too often, but they usually have helped in the garden or helped with housework prior, so they are actually earning the money they spend for toys at WalMart. 


 


I would never undermine their parents (even though the father of the two youngest is a true bum) to them.  I try to always touch upon good things they should be proud of such as "Your mommy sure knows how to fix you hair so nice, I wish I could do it as well."


 


These grandchildren are the most precious thing in the world to me and the last thing I would do is act in a way that would keep their parents from allowing them to visit.   Maybe you should explain to those grandparents your reasons/concerns.  Surely they would be glad (after an initial sulk maybe) to change their ways in exchange for more hug and kiss time from their grandbabies.


teenage daughters

Excuse me for being clueless but what do DH and DD stand for?


 


I understand where you are coming from.  My 2nd daughter from 1st marriage is almost 16 and lives with her dad.  Her stepmom is very disrespectful of me.  Always telling daughter what I should be doing, like getting a "real job".  Now my daughter has taken to calling me names any chance she gets, cursing and disrespecting my fiance's family also.  Since she lives with her dad we decided not to let her come down for a few weeks but that will not solve the problem.


Any ideas anyone.  I think the names and lack of respect is coming from the stepmom but she of course denies doing anything wrong.


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Thank you Terri for your encouragement. I will definitely keep your suggestions in mind.
Very young on both daughters - sm
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I have a friend who has her 2 daughters way too busy - sm
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Yes, my daughters are getting smart to reality.
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