you can do it!!!

Posted By: look into renting on 2005-09-27
In Reply to: I'm emotionally and financially stuck - Needing Support Ladies

with a house there is so much maintenance that adds up unexpectedly, get your things in order and get out to where even if you have to share bedrooms for now. you will be ok, you can do it!!!! PROUD OF YOU!!!!

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I'm emotionally and financially stuck - Needing Support Ladies
- Simple answer: - .
  - It is HIS house, I do the moving - Needing Support Ladies
- Dump him, and get your life back together - JZ
- I bet you are weary of our suggestions, :) but I do have 1 question. - ?
  - Answer - Needing Support Ladies
- "I would rather be from a broken home than live in one" - Dr. Phil
- It sounds like you and BF have discussed a split up. - You say hoping for 50/50.
  - Answers - Needing Support Ladies
    - :) actually girl I think you have too many options. - but good luck and happy
- I don't know what else I can add .... - SM
  - Ah, yes, once again - Needing Support Ladies
    - That's fine, but... - SM
      - That is the problem - Needing Support Ladies
        Key word here is VIOLENT. He lost his right to be "committed" - when he did the "violent" thing.
        Don't get me wrong, I agree - Needing Support Ladies
    - Sometimes it's not the income that's important - it's that you were THERE. Sounds like you - been doing pretty good!
- Here I sat feeling so incredibly lonely. Wishing I could meet my soul mate - (See Message)
  - Yes, rather be lonely and happy then with a guy and unhappy - Needing Support Ladies
    - Taxes are deductible and it does help out at the end of the year. - The miserable lonely
      - Also, eating like a poor person - Needing Support Ladies
        You don't need a mortgage if you can't eat. - What?
        I was "kidding" - Needing Support Ladies
      - Yes I qualify - Needing Support Ladies
- Well ... - Busy MT'ing
  - Answers to questions. - Needing Support Ladies
- ditch the loser - iamblunt
  - When I speak of being in the psych ward - Needing Support Ladies
- you can do it!!! - look into renting
  - Thanks but even with - Needing Support Ladies
- psycho woman - Sue
  - Where does it state in her post that she and her kids don't go to church? - mmmmmmmmmm
  - she needs support - not more downplaying
    - Sorry to be blunt, but some of it came by way of her own doing. - SM
      - Being blunt is okay and - Needing Support Ladies
        Oops, can't count though, total of 5 for the bottom sentence! nm - Needing Support Ladies
- Emotionally and financially stuck. Please sm. - Ya gotta go
  - Yep, it all sounds so good on paper - Needing Support Ladies
- You should take the boyfriend out of the equation. sm - what I think
  - I say financially I can't leave because - Needing Support Ladies
- ok I went back and re-read your post. - You have child support for (1)
  - Answers to questions. - Needing Support Ladies
- My advice: Regroup. Find a small cave, cheap, take the kids, get a stable job (1), quit trying to - work piecemeal. You
  - I do work for a hospital - Needing Support Ladies
    - Can I ask a ques? When are you ever w/your kids? - Hope the FT comes soon. Maybe
      - I work nights - Needing Support Ladies
- My 2 cents (that's all I can spare) - jt
  - The other problem is - Needing Support Ladies
  - Yes, thanks.. - Needing Support Ladies
    - Whatever it takes - jt
- Stayed "because of the kids?" I say "leave because of the kids" - next, do what they said on MSN Money board
  - girl power - you go girl
- in the same boat, except for - the wonderful kids and not so wonderful BF
  - Listen to your gut sm - Jayne
    - Curious, how much of household bills is BF carrying? - What happens when that

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