Oh. Been there done that. Picked myself up.

Posted By: My friends didn't baby me, they got me moving. on 2009-06-17
In Reply to: I think you are very rude. At least if you - ()

Babying someone and telling them to sit in a corner and cry is doing them NO good at all.

You are an enabler and not helping.

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Got an eviction notice today. - sm
- My gas was turned off last week. - Coleman propane.
- Sorry for your situation - Pugmom
- I feel for you sm - Been through the mill myself
  - Great, greatly supportive post from "Through the Mill". nm - Ella (retired)
  - Firstly of all: Why didn't YOU take your ex to courtf or non- - ()
- You need to take action. - Now.
  - That is an excellent post from "Now". sm - Ella (retired)
  - These are excellent suggestions! - NHamp gal
- I'm close to being in your shoes - keeping homelessness at bay
  - What has our profession come to? sm - Ella (retired)
    - I think all of the above, except not the -(sm)- - Topaz
      - Did you read how many heartless and rude replies - ()
    - Ella got the point (thank you!) - keeping homelessness at bay
  - I wouldn't call them sharp replies. But sometimes - truth hurts. You did something about it.
    - I disagree with you. OP has a very nasty LL - ()
      - harsh landlord? - kendra
      - If it is a month-to-month lease - - LL can evict.
        I was only wondering that the LL evicts her - ()
    - No,actually, OP didn't ask for opinions. - just sayin'
      - For real. If you post, people are gonna have an - opinion. Just sayin. (nm)
        What is wrong with? - Valerie Bowen
      - Then she shouldn't post here if she doesn't want - to hear a different opinion. And what is wrong
        Wait a minute, "What is wrong?". sm - Ella (retired)
        It is a shame, that the truth is misconstrued as - criticism.
        tp be continued: The TRUTH is that in these times - ()
        The OP sat for two months and let her situation get - worse. No hard times there.
        It's called insidious not laziness - AnnuderMT
        I think you are very rude. At least if you - ()
        Oh. Been there done that. Picked myself up. - My friends didn't baby me, they got me moving.
        OP surely knows on herself that she has to pick - ()
        Well, isn't that just so SPECIAL. - ......Not.
- I'm going to be blunt here. - But you asked for opinions.
  - Opinions or a sounding board?... - Kicking someone when they are down
  - Very eloquent and literate post, but....sm - Ella (retired)
    - That wasn't eloquent, it was downright - RUDE. NM
      - Ella (retired) meant it 'sarcastic.', read her post....nm - ()
    - Ella, I feel the same................nm - ()
    - Way harsh? Oh come on. We are all adults here. - Please.
      - If she were my daughter.... - you betcha
        You are SO RIGHT. But obviously there are plenty - here who would rather she wallow.
        This was in easier times... - ()
        you are exactly the kind of mother children give a rat's ass about - ()
        And you are the type of parent who kids - stomp all over.
        No,. that's not me. My children love and respect me. - ()
        very nice - you betcha
        I thought you don't have children...sm - ()
        Nooo. You're the best. - She no way can match you.
        I do not even answer to this. This shows me your low niveau...nm - ()
        I,. first of all, would pay her rent until she - ()
        MY DAUGHTER is a strong, independent professional - woman who loves her mom.
        What got into you? Why so aggressive? Watch your language...nm - ()
      - if the OP were your daughter would you talk the same?...nm - ()
        My daughter wouldn't sit on her duff in that situation. - She would get a job that she could live on.
    - It's so easy to judge... - BOO
      - Been there, BOO (Please read) - Pugmom
      - Again.... - BOO
        AGAIN --- LAZY. - Sheesh!
      - You forgot the HOO after your BOO. - Would you sit and whine or get moving?
        Wow! That's really fugly, especially this: - ()
        Absolutely. If someone is too lazy to get a job, - it brings the rest of the country down.
  - I agree with your post - see message - NHamp gal
- Good luck - Keep your head up!! - Tli
- I would send copy of it to my employer. -(sm)- - Topaz
  - What good would that do? - SS
    - It'd make me feel better, which is better than nothing..-- - Topaz
      - Everyone on here has what is called - SS
        So tell me ---------------------- - sm
        If you are not making the $$$ you need - SS
        I'm rarely ever out of work at my job. But at - nano-cpl, you can work all day and -
        Then WHY are you staying? NM - SS
        Didn't say I was. - ~(@)~
        and did that - been there
        Hate to tell ya, but coding's the next thing to - be going offshore, along with billing.
        Coding going offshore - Pugmom
        hate to tell you - been there
        That's what we all said 10-15 years ago - about transcription.
        like I said... - been there
        Do some research. - nm
        but it's coming, and it gets closer and closer!...nm - ()
        THANK YOU. I can't believe some of these - posts!
        So you think that little of your own profession, that - what's happening to it is somehow
        yes, I agree, how do those people who have - ()
        sm... - you betcha
        I was only giving you back your RUDENESS - ()
        Oh please. - You are tops. Trust me.
        Sheesh. Go take a Prozac or a Valium and - come back when you can be civil.
        This post is dripping of ignorance. As if - ()
- sm - Happy MTer
- oh my - mt

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Took small section by section and picked thru and took each nit and pulled them out several times a day until I found no more nits. I had to go thru mine too since I got it too.

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My 16 and 18-year-old hippy selfish, self-centered, neglectful parents are now plastic surgery seeking, anti-depressant popping nightmares, and they are still whiny babies.

There were the 3 I had picked. Absolutely
love Adam. Yes, there will be 3 wildcards. The judges will bring back those they think need a second chance; hoewver, I don't know if the public picks the last 3 or if the judges do.

Glad you picked TyneLyn!
That is what I call her most of the time! I cover my hands and play peek-a-boo with her when she is on my lap. I open my hands really fast and she puts that pointy little nose in to lick me. We keep this up until I can't stop laughing. She ALWAYS WINS!

I think you are right. . Cupid and TyneLyn are not that terribly couragious, but they sure brighten up our lives! I will go downstairs now, to WHAT? I will email tomorrow on the Gab Board and tell you how she liked the party!

See who I picked in my message on first post.
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I still haven't picked my jaw up off my desk. (sm)

I just got off a quick break and decided to watch this video that I was told would floor me. It certainly did. I knew our political system was corrupt, but I honesly had no idea "they" were this blatant about it.

This is well worth the several minutes or so it takes to watch. I didn't post this under either political board, because it transcends both the conservative and liberal spectrums. Maybe this should go under the prayer request board now that I think of it.

If it's happening there, it's happening everywhere. These "voices of the people" totally need a good smackin.

Just click on the link hopefully shown below. If it doesn't work, cut and paste this into your browser: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eG6X-xtVask

The fact that the 2 you picked up even mentioned
A long, long time ago, when I had just started working at a new job, a cute-looking guy who worked down stairs would always pass me on the stairs as I was going on my break. He seemed shy, we always just said hello. This went on for months. I liked him, but never talked to him for more than a few moments on the stairs.

Then, one morning, out of the blue, something really weird happened. As we passed each other, I said 'Hi!' as usual. After I was just past him, from behind, he said, 'Watch out, I might just rape you.'

????? Whaaaat.....???? Where on earth did THAT come from? I never spoke to him again.

Well, at about that time, there was a serial rapist in the area who over a period of time raped a lot of women in the nearby hills a popular hiking/jogging spot that I went to often, as well. He'd pick someone tired, offer to show them shortcut, and attack them in the wooded area he led them through.

Well, long story short, the guy I'd been saying hi to every morning at work, turned out to be that serial rapist! A late-20s-ish guy who was drop-dead cute, with an innocent-looking baby face. Boy, were my instincts ever NOT functioning with him, until he made that odd comment to me on the stairway! Before he made that comment, if I had bumped into him out at the hiking trail, I most surely would've gone along with him when he offered a short-cut, and become yet another statistic.

I picked the olives off trees in Greece
and was I surprised. Tasted nothing like what I was used to. I love Milk Duds also. I think they are really good when you go to the movies along with your popcorn and cola. I hardly buy them if not at the movies, wonder why?

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I really wish I would have had him do it all and we would have just slowed down. I love my husband to pieces, but it would have been nice to have a proposal and a surprise to see my ring for the first time. We kind of just agreed to get married and then went ring shopping together, but now I wish there had been more romance involved. Just let the boy pick it out - If he knows you well enough like he should if you plan on marrying him, then he'll surely pick out something you like.

I once called in a pizza order to be picked up
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The judges picked awful songs all the
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Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit drinking.
Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit smoking.
Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit sniffing glue.
Looks like I picked the wrong week to quit amphetamines

We picked out ours together. They were matching nugget bands with 4 diamonds at angle. However....
last year was our 19th anniversary. I had lost my ring about 2 weeks before my anniversary (or so I thought anyway).

For my anniversary, he had bought me a 1 carat marquis diamond. He had hid my band and then miraculously the day I tell him about losing it, he says "Oh, I found it and put it in your ring box." He goes and gets my box and yes my band is in there but also my new ring as well. It has been 19 years (now getting close to 20), I still love him to death simply because I know he really listens to me (and of course the fact that he is a sweetie!)

Sounds like YOU picked a real loser to sleep around with and have kids with.
You have no one to blame but yourself.