actually, they do know that but

• Help - Disgusted by husband? - Lisa
  • The day I felt repulsed by my husband's advances was the day I decided to leave. - It goes deeper, respect.
  • You need to be sweet. He is STILL your husband. sm - Me here
  • THE SECRET - potatoMT
    • I saw that on Oprah...so simple yet powerful!... - The Secret
      • That's the big secret? I saw some of that Oprah and got bored. - sm
        • THE SECRET = YOU - potatoMT
          • The secret: JESUS. It's so odd that everything they said on that show - Me
            • actually, they do know that but - insider
              • You're kidding? Well, Jesus said: If you deny me in front of others, I too, will deny you. How tr - Me
          • You may be right, I tend to be very negative - sm
  • OMG you just described my entire marriage.. - KC
    • What kind of programs? - Lisa (OP)
  • been there, felt that, got counseling - missy
    • Well I too have been there,felt that, got OUT : ) - nm
    • Do you remember the names of any of the books you read? - not feeling it
      • I believe we read the John Gray books because that was what was out then, but - - missy
  • What's reallly bothering you.... - about his touch?
    • You are only responsible for changing your behavior, not someone elses - Jan
      • Like I said......sm - there are exceptions...
        • Well update on your post - Jan
          • Agree, once a cheater, always a cheater... - sm
            • Not always. My husband cheated on me 26-1/2 - Wannie
              • Is he still living? - Jan
                • yep, alive and well. Married almost 29 years now. nm - Wannie
        • And again, she cannot change his behavior, only hers - Jan
  • Lisa, what is it about your husband that is making you feel disgusted? - That is where you may consider beginning (sm)
    • Believe me there are many reasons - Lisa (OP)
      • Been there done that. - MT in MT
  • Oh my gosh! - S. Hill
  • Had exactly same experience after 10-12 years...sm - been there
  • Dont know where your relationship has gone wrong but - Gabby
  • That brings back unpleasant memories. Glad that's over with. nm - yech.
  • I think once disgust happens, lots of therapy is needed to feel love again. Lots - of issues going on here. Wishing you luck. nm

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