Hayseed I usually love your posts but (sm)

• If your husband had a problem with your weight and (sm) - Butter and clutter
  • Hate to say it but he sounds like a clone - sm -
  • he sounds like a jerk to me - a happy MT
  • If they fell in love with us, as we were...sm - PammyB
  • ""Love Must Be Tough" -- written by (sm) - No Name
  • Sounds very much like he is unhappy with HIMSELF! - mandy
  • 1/2 the equity is not enough - mammamt
  • See a divorce attorney - Malia
  • ask yourself this question . . . sm - maam1
  • Wow. - Misha
    • good post Misha!!! And to OP, know you're a better - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
      • Very silly question - I know but have to ask (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • No experience at all with this, just what I saw on a Dr. Phil one time - - mlt
        • not a silly question at all....sm - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
          • Thank you so much - it's gone on so long (sm) - Butter and clutter
            • Did I mention he's a horrible person? - Misha
              • Good post again Misha.......no msg - LorenaBobbitt
            • you're welcome............sm - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
    • That's good Misha - thanks :-) (nm) - Butter and clutter
  • Your weight problem may be due to your - bad marriage. Seek some psychiatric help.
    • In your shoes - siren
      • Pretty sure he's done that too - no proof (sm) - Butter and clutter
  • I'd tell him to hit the bricks sm - mlstoo
  • Sounds like he is a negative weight pulling you - down (sm)
  • Sounds like he's blaming everything that's wrong in HIS life - on you.
  • Your choices are to either be proactive and do something... - mtc
  • blatant emotional abuse - put him out
  • I think I would stay put if I were you. He knows where the - Wannie
    • bad marriage. don't live that way! - just me
    • I agree totally this this post, though I have never been married, - I do have a child. They should come first-sm
      • He refuses to do that. He says no way is he leaving (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • Not only is he treating you badly, - trose
        • I was not suggesting you live in the situation at all. I just was thinking - about the kids "leaving" their home-sm
        • You're right! You and your kids will do better w/o him - in a happier home where you all are loved. nm
        • Does he treat you badly in front of your children or is it - Wannie
          • occasionally blatantly in front of them - usually (sm) - Butter and clutter
            • Out of the mouths of babes - Listen to your son
            • The only reason I asked if it was in front of your children or - Wannie
  • Are you unhappy enough to leave? Your life is too short... - mtmetoo
  • I'd tell him to take half the equity and get out - sm - XXX
  • Why stay if there's no love there?!! You deserve a much nicer life partner, girl. - Get out and go for it! nm He's a creep!!
  • Take your share of the equity and go (sm) - nm
    • Take your share and go?? - Why doesnt he take his - share and go? - What about the kids.
      • He has agreed the kids should go with me (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • He doesnt want the kids cause they would mess up his - single lifestyle. nm
      • I tried hard for years - never good enough (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • you don't need therapy-you JUST SUMMED IT UP!! - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
  • Now he just came in and asked me to start over (sm) - Butter and clutter
    • ok he sounds like he has a sense of humor..LOL. - better Mom than his was not, probably!!..sm
      • But we go through this routinely (sm) - Butter and clutter
    • It would just be more of the same. - nm
    • This sounds just like me and my husband! - Hayseed
      • Hayseed I usually love your posts but (sm) - Butter and clutter
        • Hey, no need to apologize to me! - Hayseed
          • You're not like him - different motivations (sm) - Butter and clutter
            • hubby - ortho mt
  • I think... - you know the answer...sm

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but I just want to say I'm with your mom on this one:  I feel sad for you, too.  But also admire the strength of your convictions in a way as well.  I'm not going to preach either.  Already went through it with my sister.  She asked if I really believed -the whole thing- and I said yes.  She wondered how and I just said it's called faith. 

PS - Did you start Harry Potter yet?????  Open that book already! 

Just looked at your web site (from under your MT Stars name).  What a dream your place is!  Congrats for making such a dream come true for you.  Thanks for sharing.

what you do in your spare time when you aren't MT'ing and tending to your farm . . .

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Kd_tSRsxzvI

I'm going to work on becoming a little more savvy with this stuff, really appreciate your time!  Most days, this board is my main source of entertainment (except for Jake now, of course) or consternation depending on the subject, and you are always a bright spot in the day...

For anyone interested in another puppy story, we adopted him from a shelter, had been put there by a family who decided they didn't want him, had a little kid, but I think the truth is, and the people at the shelter thought, that the family just didn't know what having a puppy was like, so their loss, our happiness!  He's a labradoodle and found him through an internet rescue site that came up when I was searching on it.  We had seen a tan one at a house for sale that we were looking at (I thought it was some kind of terrier or something), and my DH fell in love with that dog, so I did some searching...and there he was.  About dropped my teeth when I found on searching what breeders are getting for these dogs... as somebody pointed out to me, they are just mutts, after all...But I was happy to find him at the shelter, have always adopted dogs like that, am always amazed at the wonderful animals that get dropped off.  My wonderful Boxer had been rescued from a puppy mill situation and many moons ago I had a little German short-hair pointer/Brittany mix that was very ill at first, didn't think she was going to make it, but she lived to 17.  I don't usually do all the little doggie accoutrements, like scarves and such, but he was pretty matted and dirty so had to have a professional trim the first time (dang thing cost more than my haircuts!! so I guess the scarf was part of the doggie-do package.)  Wish I could find the pic that stole our hearts at the shelter, like Misha's pic of Cedric.  Anyway, thanks again Hayseed, you rock!

fair either, to me or the dog. I appreciate just hearing your comments and understanding that I am in a bad situation. I certainly thank everyone who has commented. So many of us have a deep connection to God's magnificent creatures. There is nothing like it in the world.

I just 4 Advil an hour or so ago, so it's not too bad.  The Anbesol works for about 15 minutes and then it's like I never used it.  Just hanging in there until I can call the dentist tomorrow first thing.  I think I'll live.

Thanks for asking! 

The snow finally stopped and now comes the rain.  This combination always make such a mess! 

I was watching the WSDOT cam yesterday and that road is a four lane road where the cam is set.   If you watched that particular camera you would notice that there were maybe 3 lanes of traffic and ALL of them were heading in one direction.  The folks going the opposite direction were getting the squeeze.  Of course, it was hard to tell where the lanes were because it was all compact snow and ice but dang!

The winner of the biggest snow driving dingbat (apparently MTStars says i*iot is a bad word) goes to the person who actually stopped and let the kids OUT of the car in the middle of the road to play in the snow while the adult cleaned off the windshield.   I am not kidding!   Lots of people were stopping in the middle of the road to clean off their windshields but this one let the kids out to play in the snow!    Geesh!

Just a clip to crack you up...They were a phenomenal team in that movie!~ I couldn't stop laughing either.  It really was hard to pick a couple favorites...I coulda gone all the way back to Duck Soup (Marx Brothers).  Cat  

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K2x_sp3Ehvk

For figuring out what they were called.  Melted Plastic Popcorn would have not been the first thing that came to mind, and I never knew there was anything other than the snowman, BUT!!!! Now that I know, I am determined to get the whole set!

the topics that she saw here and they are all laughing it up including the owner of the other board.  You can tell the topics that no one wants to talk about or be "for real" about because the OP will go unanswered.   This board is way better, believe me!!! 

P/S:  If that's all they have to laugh about is an inquiry in this board, does that tell you what kind of board they have going over there?